The plan for our family today was to get up, meet some friends at the Jacksonville Children's Festival, have a picnic, and go to the library on the way home. Key words: The Plan.
In his heart a man plans his course,
but the LORD determines his steps.
~ Proverbs 16:9
So, yes, I "planned", but God had determined something else from my good intentions:)
Last night Ryan stubbed his toes (yes, toes, as in more than one!) and this morning he was uncomfortable enough to want to stay home and miss out on the Children's Festival. He could even put his shoes on, but at least there were no broken bones involved (that day will come, sooner or later!). Charlie agreed to stay home with Ryan, so I took Nathan to the festival. I also think Ryan may have been feeling the festival was for little kids, but oh well. It would be good for them to have some "guy time" together too.
Oops, I forgot to get gas....and cash to get in. Double oops, I forgot our water bottles at home too! Thankfully this was all an easy fix at the gas station and finally we were on our way. We met up with our friends and I was immediately glad for the change in plans since she too had come sans husband. We took the boys around to the booths that we did last year and I asked at one point "what's up there on the hill?" I thought it was food vendors or something else since we didn't check it out last year. Ha! I didn't know it was for the "big kids!!" I took the two older boys (mine and my friend's) up there and we made candles, created a "silk" screen print, suncatcher mosaics and realized that some of the booths were closing that we didn't even have a chance to check out! Like making a bowl on a pottery wheel! Wow! We will go again next year just to check it all out:) And I got to come home and let Ryan know it's really not just for little kids!
Ew, yuck!
Anyway, we didn't have our picnic since half our family was at home, but we did have lots of fun with our friends:) I was thrilled to come home and find that Charlie and Ryan mowed the lawn -front & back, whacked the weeds, watered the garden and were happily playing a board game together when we got home! Yahoo! Now we can just have a quick lunch and we're off the library.
At the library, Ryan spotted 2 boys from Cub Scouts, but as always he could remember names. He went to say hello and I introduced myself their mom and we ended up talking for about an hour! It cracks me up sometimes....
She had asked what school the boys go to and when I said we homeschool, she gave me "that look"....she scrunched up her face and gave a lop-sided smile and said "doesn't it drive you nuts?" Ha! If you only knew:) As usual, I heard the "I could never have the patience to homeschool", but this time it was followed by 20 questions! She, like so many, had a picture in her head of what a homeschooler's day must look like, but when I explained to her the kinds of things we've been doing lately, she was amazed! She had mentioned that it's "all or nothing" with her kids....during the school year her boys were in school all day, home to do homework, then off to baseball practice and games on the weekend - generally never home and always on the go. Now that they're home for summer, they're either in front of the tv, video games, or "bored" and home all the time. There's no middle ground. She said when they're in school she cleans the house and then isn't quite sure what to do with herself til they get home. I can't really relate to that, of course, but do I miss it? No. I love the time I have with the boys, seeing them learn and being a part of it. I love it when that "light" goes on when they get something! Do I need more down time? Yes, of course, but I can't imagine putting the boys into school just to get it. There are days when we're busy, busy, busy, and there are days when we just need to take a break...thankfully we have the freedom to do both. If my boys are bored with their schoolwork we have the freedom to "spice it up" or move on. My lesson plans are never set in stone....more like playdough:)
Anyway, I made a new friend today:) We exchanged phone numbers and the boys are already talking play dates. Funny how things work out that way sometimes when our plans change!
Thank you, Lord, for directing my steps today:)


